A Nigerian woman, Aisha Lawal, has said that polygamy is permissible in Islam so she will marry any man married that catches her fancy.

“Polygamy is HALAL both in our culture and Islam. So, if your husband enter our eyes, we go marry am and heaven no go fall. Trust me,” she wrote.

Social media has erupted in shock and disbelief over a bizarre family dispute in Harare, Zimbabwe, involving Ethel Mupoperi and her daughter, Munyaradzi. Munyaradzi accused her mother of “snatching” her husband and building a life with him in their rural hometown, a situation that unfolded while Munyaradzi was pregnant with her husband’s child. This controversial family affair took center stage at the Harare Civil Court, sparking a heated legal battle between the mother-daughter duo. Munyaradzi claims that her mother’s actions are a deep betrayal, describing her new relationship with her mother as akin to being “co-wives.” The rift extends beyond the unusual relationship, as Munyaradzi asserts that her mother is now staking a claim to a house she began building with her former husband on land he initially purchased. Ethel, however, defends herself, alleging that her daughter’s resentment has…..Read Full Article

There’s frequent news about extramarital affairs involving single women and married men, sparking curiosity about why some women choose to date married men when there are plenty of single men available. A recent study even revealed that nearly 90% of single women expressed a preference for men already in a committed relationship, compared to just 59% who favored single men.

Psychologists refer to this phenomenon as “mate poaching,” where single women are attracted to married men, often disregarding the potential consequences. To understand the motivations behind these relationships, it’s essential to take a more nuanced view. Rather than passing judgment, it’s about exploring the reasons some women may enter into relationships with married men.

Interestingly, most men involved in affairs report that their primary motivation is physical satisfaction rather than emotional connection. On the other hand, women who engage with married men often do so because they believe they are in love or are developing feelings for the man.

There are three common factors that may influence these women’s decisions:

1. Seeking Emotional Connection: Some women are attracted to married men because they feel a deep emotional bond. These men might provide a level of understanding or intimacy that the women feel is lacking in their lives, making them believe they are offering something the man’s marriage is missing.
2. Thrill-Seekers: For others, the appeal lies in the excitement of the forbidden. The secrecy and risk involved in such a relationship may provide the sense of adventure they crave.
3. Low Self-Esteem: Women with lower self-worth might pursue relationships with married men, thinking it’s preferable to being alone or feeling undeserving of a fully committed partner.

Of course, not every woman who dates a married man fits neatly into these categories. Each situation is unique, so it’s important to approach the topic with respect and recognize that motivations can vary greatly.